On the topic of impotency & foolishness
The woman is intentionally blocking the man’s sexual energy (in Hindu culture known as the 1st chakra/energetical centre) in order not to feel her pain, her own surfaced suffering. Which would come up due to the strength of the male’s uplifting sexual force. And yet, those are especially women who are criticizing men for their inability to having sexual contact and loosening of the physical intimacy within the couple. And they are even surprised that they cannot have an orgasm and that the man is unable to satisfy them. And as “a cherry on the cake”, according to the victim patterns inherited from the past, the guilty one is, of course – the man.
For the underlying truth is that they don’t want to have an orgasm! They (unconsciously) want to stay numb. Because having an orgasm, especially a strong one has got some consequences… And those consequences are that they will receive a vast bunch of energy from the man (or a partner) which causes to raise the energy within the body’s energetic field and virtually hit the button of the discomfort stored inside our bodies – the ancestral fear, anger and grief
However, men are not innocent in this at all! Surprisingly, similar applies to men. Men too don’t want to have sex and orgasm. They also want to keep their numbness. In order not to perceive the reality hidden beneath the surface of the Maya. Because having an orgasm for them means to give the energy to the woman and find himself down on earth again. With all the discomfort surfacing from such a state, for the very same reason as applies to women.
Similarly, man is intentionally blocking the woman’s knowledge (in Hindu also known as the 7th chakra/energetical centre). In order not to realize his true role, his true purpose in life and within the Whole. That realization would otherwise come down – as a responsibility he has to, one day inevitably, overtake and transmute into a completely different form. To enable him to step on the journey of true masculinity. Which are his birthright and heritage of his manhood. And yet, those are especially men who are, for centuries, criticizing women for a lack of knowledge, intelligence and understanding. And who are oppressing, underestimating and blaming them for being “not clever enough”.
And so men are definitely not victims of this circumstance – but responsible to unwind this shadow patterns. For women cannot do that for them or instead of them. On the other side, what women definitely can do is to stop hiding from their pain and from feeling their own – and consequently our suffering. It is extremely uncomfortable for each of us, being no difference between men and women… We are all together in this. And at the same time completely alone. Each of us plays an exact and vital role in this Divine comedy.
For this is the reality of the consciousness we live in – the adolescent consciousness of the modern age. And what happens at the end as a general consequence? Well. We both stay alone. We break out of the relationships (if not physically, then emotionally and mentally), we “go our own way” and we think that we can make up our own life and pave the way to our dreams.
A day to day consequences? The woman stays without the man and is crawling in the dust of unconsciousness, without a blink of awareness. And the man? He stays without a woman, completely imprisoned inside the insanity of his mind, ungrounded and cut off from the reality of the matter and everyday life.
And yet, there are moments and places in our lives when we have to be alone. When we need to be alone. And perhaps to try something else. For example to cultivate the lost art of aloneness. Because if we are unable to stand our aloneness, to be fulfilled with our own presence, then we hardly could honour and appreciate the companion of the other. But who knows where are you on the ladder at the moment?…
We can understand all this metaphorically or literally. It’s up to us, the current openness of our minds and beings – and certain courage necessary to face ourselves. Or also archetypally. As our inner aspects. Reflected by the individuals we live with or share our life experience with.
And there is very important to realize something here. That there is no blame and no guilt. Nobody is doing this to the other intentionally. Nobody wants to harm the other, at least not consciously. These are all unconscious ancestral patterns stored inside our bodies – or “the past” if you want. Deep down, we are all pure and innocent. It’s an unconscious agreement between us, to keep the illusion alive as long as possible. In order not to grow and realize who we really are. And we are all supporting each other in this behaviour, unconsciously. Whether we like it or not. We are all together in this “misery”.
And there is good news! That the same way as others are supporting you in this behaviour, they can help you to get out of this behaviour, of this unconscious play hidden behind the theatre’s stage. And to slowly, over time, integrate the past.
And there is even better news! That at the higher frequency these destructive patterns of ours manifest as the ability of the woman to ground man and the ability of the man to bring the woman out of the unconscious. Out of the shadow frequency – to enable her to raise up. And by facilitating this, to open her heart to Love…