Life unfolds in 7-stages cycles (The vicious circle of humanity)
There is a theory from a French meta-psychological scientist Dr. Hubert Larcher, which states that the foetus inside the womb, throughout his nine months of development, underway a journey of energetical imprinting, which – as an energetical potential is unfolding during his life and drives an unfolding of something what we could call a destiny and what has been programmed long before the birth took place. In other words that the life of the foetus during the prenatal period inside the womb is an invitation to the physical life which is unfolding after the birth actually takes place. And as such, is, therefore, a fulfilling of his energetical potential.
Working with the Life Integration Process and simultaneously going through my own life experience it seems this theory has solid foundations. At least in my observations and circumstances in which my own life experience unfolds.
Life really seems to be an energetical potential revealing in 7-year cycles. Continually and repeatedly unfolding the unintegrated signatures imprint. Or in other words, the energetical potential imprinted in the womb. And so not the emotional signatures, from the time we were children – how the major part of the professional community mostly approach psychological conditions. Based on my own experience, I see how all that is happening after birth is nothing but a consequence. The cause lies in a much earlier phase than the childhood took place. Even if I assume that much more factors are involved and that life is far less predictable than we would like it to be. However, to me, it’s apparent that at its base life is a continual repeating of the energetical signatures imprint from the time we haven’t been even born. From the time when most of us were comfortably drifting in our mother’s womb. Moreover, it is happening deliberately, on purpose.
At least until we take the opportunity to integrate this imprint and step out of the vicious circle.
This is not new knowledge. But when I digested this revelation I was pretty surprised and also a bit sceptical about its depth. However only until I took a pen, a piece of paper and I started to write down a small table. I put down only three columns. Years – always in groups of 7-year cycles from my birth until now. In the second one, I tried to remember and wrote an important event. The event, or a couple of events which happened in that particular year and seems to be the main topic of that year. In a few important areas of my life. I wrote down always something from my work life, my private life, free time and my intimate life. And I tried to fill each year to the best memory. Then the third column representing the common topic of the year popped up just by itself.
Before I finished I was even more surprised and it literally turned into a shock. I saw this 7-year energetical signatures imprint repeating in real. In my life. Here it was, on the paper in front of me. Based on what really happened, not on any concept or theory. And I knew it is true. At least for me, but that was fair enough.
Every single 7th year the same circumstance or phenomenon is repeating. The same energetical imprint from the womb. It might not appear as the same event physically, which is misleading. But it is definitely the same signature imprinted energetically. It’s the very same resonance rooted deeply in our DNA. In every single cell of the body. In our blood, flesh and bones.
It leads us to believe that our life is a never-ending chain of new experiences. In which we are getting older, we grow and mature. In fact, it is not. For most of us, life is a continually repeated past which unfolds in 7-year periods and is driven by the archetypal genetic potential inherited from our ancestors through DNA in the womb (nowadays we even know what this genetic potential contains). Hence it is not really a growth unfolded in 7-year periods, it is a continually repeated past unfolded in 7-year periods. At this part of life, we are really going back to the roots rather than forward. It’s a way back to the source, to the beginning. Some people call it patterns, some imprinting, in tradition it is known as the Maya or illusion. But there are no patterns really, it’s just the past hidden behind the so-called patterns. We can’t get rid of them, break them or change them. No habits’ change could ever help us to transcend the pattern. That’s another illusion, so widely seen in the new age culture. It’s just too deeply rooted. It’s who we are, partly.
And so I took this 7-year grouping and looking closely it became apparent they represent the seven stages of Nelles’ Life Integration Process model. In my own experience the symbolic topic of those years was the following:
| Year | The character of the year topic and content of its unfolding |
| 1 | Unconscious unity and the following birth (a completely new experience, an experience of a different “world”) |
| 2 | Energy in motion (emotionally turbulent time followed by a breath of fresh air) |
| 3 | Sedation and separation (overpressure of emotions, feelings and consequent repression, sedation and control. Followed by a runaway) |
| 4 | Self-knowing process (self-reflection, self-observing, felt-perception, maintaining a distance from the object of observation) |
| 5 | Rebirth and Flow (uplift into a new dimension, widening of perspective, “rebirth” into a wider space) |
| 6 | Being (not-doing, following only what comes to us, merging with the object of observation – being one with life) |
| 7 | Death (resting, staying in the gap, transformation, end of the old cycle) |
Saying that life moves in cycles really mean that all life moves in cycles. That means everything that is a part of it. Whether it is our life experience, our relationships, business projects, company we have founded, scientific research we are involved in or any other activity or phenomenon in the whole universe. I realised this some time ago when personally consulting one of my friends’ new IT project after working in the consultancy field for many years. All in this universe moves through these seven basic stages.
By the way, do you also recognize the topic of each week’s day in these stages?
Let’s demonstrate this insight on a “lifecycle” of a human relationship. Imagine we fall in love with a woman and the “life of the relationship” just started. Let’s see how it will be moving through the seven stages stated above:
1 – Unconscious unity and the following Birth
A new relationship is being formed. Two people are getting to know each other, they are making feelers. After some time they come closer. They are both feeding each other “nutritionally” – they literally live from love. The couple creates a symbiotic, unconscious unity. They are symbolically “flying in the heaven”, like if they would be connected through a belly-cord. Their abdomens are full of butterflies and all they think about and feel is pure love. At least love is a state in which they resonate at the moment. All their time available they spend together. They eat together, they bath together, they sleep together and maybe they even work together. They breathe as the one body. They are clinging to each other. On an individual level, it relates to the unborn child consciousness. It’s like a child inside of the mother’s womb. That means from the point of their awareness they are both unconscious about their individualities, not really aware of each other. They simply form a unity. Unconscious one, but unity. “The other” always plays the role of the mother. This period always lasts for a couple of weeks or months, but if their behaviour is authentic, the ending of butterfly effect will inevitably arise.
2 – Energy in motion
The hormonally over-pressured, enthusiastic “heaven” from the first period is over. Symbolically this stage relates to the “Fall from the Eden”. It is an emotionally turbulent time as the emotional charge of both starts to surface into awareness. Now they are really starting to feel something. Unfortunately, they don’t know if their own, or the other. They are confused, they feel weird physically and the emotional reactions start to surface. Maybe some conflict arises, maybe some blaming arise. Maybe one of them even wants to leave. Is this the right partner for me when I feel like this? Maybe she’s not meant for me. But the mutual dependence is too strong at this moment and no one of them has the power to leave. A lot of unconscious fear lies behind. What happens if I walk away? Would I find another woman? The “right one” for me? And so both remain in a kind of suffering mode, which they might get used to in time. They assure themselves it’s not so bad. And maintain a certain distance, along with a status-quo. And this could go for ages.
3 – Sedation and separation
However, if they move to the next stage, at some point it will inevitably lead to separation. They might or might not split, but both of them will step into and maintain a safe distance from each other. They don’t have to separate physically, but the relationship is only scratching the surface. There is no deeper connection anymore. The main topic of this stage is disaffection, control, sedation and repression. And not only of feelings, emotions and body sensations. Here we want to control everything, including the life itself. And the consequence is that we found ourselves living in our minds and thought’s processes. The underlying fear from the other caused an evacuation of awareness from the body. We simply cannot handle the voltage of chemistry within the relationship’s field. And so we start to live in our mental imaginations and fantasies about how it could be, how it should be, how the other is or is not. We simply deflect our awareness out of reality into imaginary space of the mind, manifested in all kind of different ways. Surprisingly to (unconsciously) protect ourselves. At this point, we are completely unaware that what lies behind and drives all “the love story” is our unconscious definition of love.
Long story short, at the peak of this phase, every one of us will find himself facing a dilemma. Either to step away, to step back – or to move forward into the complete unknown. Where, one day, life will push each of us anyway. In the case of a relationship, there is no other choice than to expose ourselves to the relationship. And to all that starts to surface into it. We have to face it, we have to feel it, we have to deal with it. There’s no escape or a shortcut. In the next stages, we don’t run away or hide anymore. And it takes time.
You can analyse the following phases by yourself, based on your own life experience or observations. And you can apply it to your relationships, your life or a business project. Potentially the next 4 stages will follow, until the seventh one. However, not all is ideal in today’s world and the bet I put here is that most of us, in most cases, step away during the third stage (that is, if we don’t get stuck in the first or the second one). Because the third stage is critical. In every single aspect of life. The relationship, business or even sports career. It is our Achilles heel. And all usually finishes there, before the cycle is allowed to finish organically, by itself. For we finish it, unconsciously. By running away.
And guess what happens then. Another cycle starts. And do you suspect what will happen in the next one? The very same thing, the very same experience, the very same pain surfaces and we approach it the very same way. We run away. Thus the vicious circle continues.
Why? Because we are immature, impatient, lost, disintegrated, arrogant, selfish, dishonest, confused, we want to keep control, there is a lack of awareness, a lack of commitment, a lack of persistence and because we don’t want to feel the discomfort. But above all and most importantly, our love is still conditional at that stage. There is still plenty of if, when and under the condition of.
We are blind to the fact that our “issues” has nothing to do with others. And it all happens unconsciously. We are not aware of it and so to some point innocent.
As a consequence we are constantly running away from ourselves, jumping out of the current cycles into the next ones without any awareness of what’s going on. If we would step aside we would see. We are constantly running the same cycle again and again. We are spinning around in the circle. It’s called the rabbit race. Or the human race?
Life is a program. It’s a program and we are “rabbits”, unconsciously running the ancestral imprints. Unless we integrate the womb imprint and thus symbolically change the destiny. Or at least the way of how destiny is unfolding, what do we attract to ourselves and what are we attracted to. Until this moment we are the imprint, we are our past. There’s no way of how we could get rid of the imprint, of how we could change the patterns. All we can do is to integrate it, to contain it. And so to raise its frequency, which then allows us to experience a “different face” of the very same imprint. It is an energetical imprint and as such not visible, not tangible. No technique to actively working with the mind, with our beliefs or psychoanalysis could ever help us to resolve this. Such an approach is merely scratching the surface, instead of adjusting the causal point of our experience. And as such is only fiddling with effects. Well, if there is anything to resolve.
Life moves in cycles. But we are Life. Who other than us moves in cycles?
Integration is a long-term process. It’s a process of refining the body, of refining our emotions, desires and yearnings. Refining the frequency of the energy field we are. And during this process, all that is inessential have to go. All the ancestral memory imprints have to go away from the body. By integrating them. Integrating the old, stacked, suppressed energy stored in the body cells. And I am not talking here exclusively about the physical body of an individual human being. I am talking about “body” in general. Whether that is a company, a project team, a business initiative or even a nation.
It is a process of absorbing, of taking in and thus refining the essence inside us. For we are really all of it. We are also the ancestral memory, the bloodlines residual and at the same time, we are a pure essence. To refine the essence, the primal state, the “prima materia” have to be purified. And it really takes years.
The way is long and full of challenges. Will we get through? This is an especially interesting question in regard to the fifth stage of the cycle. Where, if we manage to go through, persist and integrate everything in the way, something really “magical” comes. Let’s call it a rebirth, symbolically. Because nobody and nothing are being reborn really. It may be a huge business success, it may be a happy and fulfilling marriage or partnership. Or a personal life that is meaningful and brings value also to others.
What I am trying to share here is the point that we are far more stressed from living our lives than we really need to be. And that all we need is to see what is. For the basic setup has been done long before the company started. It has been done in the womb, during the unconscious unity stage. And we are not the ones setting up anything. It’s been done for us. It’s been done based on all the inputs. In case of a business or IT project based on the “genetic material of the project” which means resources, their quality and intentions involved – people, finances, materials, knowledge, management and all the intangible secrets.
So the question is always “what has been input into the project?”. What kind of people and resources? What sort of unconscious or conscious intentions are in? What kind of fears, suppressed emotional states, dishonest or hidden intentions are in from the very beginning of the cycle? Simply said what is the energetical potential of this particular cycle? As directly based on the inputs the life-cycle will be unfolding. Whether it is life itself, a relationship, a business project, a company you own or a sports career. And the key is not to talk, write or read about this. But to go through these projects of ours. To experience and see what is true for us.
From this point of view, life is for its most part an unfolding of these primal energetical imprints. But as we change our approach towards the potential, the consequences adjust accordingly. Thus ask yourself honestly, how do you treat your potential, your employees or business partners? How do you really treat them? And remember that two months from the womb life remained uncovered. So keep the faith and don’t get stuck in any concepts. The only prerequisite is the unconditional attention and acceptance of everything that flows through us at present.
There is nothing spiritual about it. And at the same time everything. It’s a process of refining and tuning the matter. Of taking the rough material and turning it into gold, as the ancient alchemists do. But the matter is being refined by the spirit. Or vice versa? Who knows…
