Life unfolds in 7-stages cycles (The vicious circle of humanity)
There is a theory from a French meta-psychological scientist Dr Hubert Larcher, which states that the foetus inside the womb, throughout his nine months of development, underway a journey of energetical imprinting, which – as an energetical potential is uncovered during his life and drives an unfolding of something what we could call a destiny and what has been programmed long before the birth took place. In other words that the life of the foetus during the prenatal period inside the womb is an invitation to the physical life which is unfolding after the birth takes place. And as such is, therefore, a fulfilling of his energetical potential.
Working with the Life Integration Process and simultaneously going through my own life experience it seems this theory has solid foundations. At least in my observations and circumstances in which my own life experience unfolds.
Life seems to be an experience of the energetical potential being revealed in 7-year cycles. Continually and repeatedly unfolding the unintegrated signatures imprint. Or in other words, the energetical potential imprinted in the womb. And so not the emotional signatures, from the time we were children – how the major part of the professional community mostly approach psychological conditions. Based on my own experience, I see how all that is happening after birth is nothing but a consequence. Of which the cause lies in a much earlier phase than the childhood took place. Even if I assume that much more factors are involved and that life is far less predictable than we would like it to be. However, to me, it’s apparent that at its base, life is a continual repeating of the energetical signatures imprint from the time we haven’t been even born. From the time when most of us were comfortably drifting in our mother’s womb. Moreover, it is happening deliberately, on purpose.
At least until we take the opportunity to integrate this imprint and step out of the vicious circle. What in some communities is called the de-conditioning process. Though as I see it, we are all being constantly de-conditioned by life, to some point. Whether we are aware of it or not.
This is not new knowledge. The 7-years archetypal pattern is well-known in psychology, tradition and the so-called spiritual circles. But when I digested this revelation I was pretty surprised and also a bit sceptical about its depth. However only until I took a pen, a piece of paper and I started to write down a small table. I put down only three columns. Years – always in groups of 7-year cycles from my birth. In the second one, I tried to remember and write down an important event. The event, or a couple of events which happened in that particular year and seems to be the main topic of that year. In a few important areas of my life. I wrote down always something from my work life, my private life, free time and my intimate life. And I tried to fill each year to the best memory. Then the third column representing the common topic of the year popped up just by itself.
Before I finished I was even more surprised and it literally turned into a shock. I saw this 7-year energetical signatures imprint repeating in real. In my life. Here it was, on the paper in front of me. Based on what really happened, not on any concept or theory. And I knew it is true. At least for me, but that was fair enough.
Every single 7th year the same circumstance or phenomenon is repeating. The same energetical imprint from the womb. It might not appear as the same event physically, which is misleading. But it is the same signature imprinted energetically. It’s the very same resonance rooted deeply in our DNA. In every single cell of the body. In our blood, flesh and bones.
It leads us to believe that our life is a never-ending chain of new experiences. In which we are getting older, we grow and mature. It is not. For most of us, life is a continually repeated past which unfolds in 7-year periods and is driven by the archetypal genetic potential inherited from our ancestors through DNA in the womb (nowadays we even know what this genetic potential contains). Hence it is not a growth unfolded in 7-year periods, it is a continually repeated past unfolded in 7-year periods. And for most, we are stuck in this past. Or more precisely, in our relationship to this past. Some people call it patterns, some imprinting or emotional charge. But really, it’s just the past hidden behind the so-called patterns. At least their “low frequency” form. We can’t get rid of them, break them or change them. No habits’ change could ever help us to transcend the pattern unless we integrate the charge behind them. It’s just too deeply rooted. It’s who we are, partly.
And so I took this 7-year grouping and looking closely it became apparent they represent the seven stages of Nelles’ Life Integration Process model. What I saw is that this grouping represents the “lifecycle” of every life encounter. And thus that it applies not only to the 7-year cycle of human upbringing (and societal conditioning) but that it represents a 7-stages cycle of all life experiences. Whether they are human relationships, healing processes, projects, developments, businesses, learning processes or anything else. Regardless of how long do they take.
In my own experience the symbolic topic of those years was the following:
|Year/Stage||The character of the year/stage topic and content of its unfolding|
|1||Unconscious unity and the following birth (a completely new experience, an experience of a different “world”)|
|2||The energy in motion (emotionally/energetically turbulent time accompanied by the unfolding of emotional charge)|
|3||Controlling (overpressure of emotions, feelings and consequent repression, sedation and denial)|
|4||Self-knowing process (self-reflection, self-observing, felt-perception, maintaining a distance from the object of observation)|
|5||Flow (uplift into a new dimension, widening of perspective, “re-birth” into a wider space)|
|6||Being (not-doing, following only what comes to us, merging with the object of observation – being one with life)|
|7||Death (resting, staying in the gap, transformation, end of the old cycle)|
Saying that life moves in cycles mean that all life moves in cycles. That means everything that is a part of it. Whether it is our life experience, our relationships, business projects, company we have founded, scientific research we are involved in or any other activity or phenomenon in the whole universe. I realised this some time ago when consulting one of my friends’ new IT project. All in this universe moves through these seven basic stages. Or at least all supposed to be moving through them. But obviously, it’s highly influenced by many external factors like the age in which we live, the pace of evolution humanity goes through etc.
By the way, do you also recognize the topic of each week’s day in these stages?
Let’s demonstrate this insight on a “lifecycle” of a human relationship. Imagine we fall in love with a woman and the “life of the relationship” just started. Let’s see how it will be moving through the seven stages stated above:
1 – Unconscious unity and the following birth
A new relationship is being formed. Two people are getting to know each other, they are making feelers. After some time they come closer. They are both feeding each other “nutritionally” – they literally live from love. The couple creates a symbiotic, unconscious unity. They are symbolically “flying in the heaven”, like if they would be connected through a belly-cord. Their abdomens are full of butterflies and all they think about and feel is pure love. At least love is a state in which they resonate at the moment. All their time available they spend together. They eat together, they bath together, they sleep together and maybe they even work together. They breathe as the one body. Clinging to each other. On an individual level, it relates to the unborn child consciousness. It’s like a child inside of the mother’s womb. That means they are both unconscious about their individualities, not aware of each other. They simply form a unity. Unconscious one, but unity. “The other” always plays the role of the former parent (substituting either father or mother). This period usually lasts for a couple of weeks or months, but if their behaviour is authentic, the ending of butterfly effect will inevitably arise.
2 – The energy in motion
The hormonally over-pressured, enthusiastic “heaven” from the first period is over. Symbolically this stage relates to the “fall from the Eden”. It is an emotionally turbulent time as the emotional charge of both starts to surface into awareness. Now they are starting to feel something. Unfortunately, they don’t know if their own, or the other. They are confused, they feel weird physically and the emotional reactions come into play. Perhaps some conflict arises, perhaps some blaming arises. Maybe one of them even wants to leave. Is this the right partner for me when I feel like this? Maybe she’s not meant for me. But the mutual dependence is too strong at this moment and no one of them has the power to leave. A lot of unconscious fear lies behind. What happens if I walk away? Would I find another partner? The “right one” for me? And so both remain in a kind of suffering mode, which they might get used to in time. They assure themselves it’s not so bad. And maintain a certain distance, along with a status-quo. And this could go for ages.
3 – Controlling
However, if they move to the next stage, at some point it will inevitably lead to control and separation. Both of them will step into and maintain a safe distance from each other. They don’t have to separate physically, but the relationship is only scratching the surface. There is no deeper connection anymore. The main topic of this stage is disaffection, control, sedation, denial and repression. And not only of feelings, emotions and body sensations. Here we want to control everything, including the life itself. And the consequence is that we find ourselves living in our minds and thought’s processes. The underlying fear from the other caused an evacuation of awareness from the body. We simply cannot handle the voltage of chemistry within the relationship’s field. And so we start to live in our mental imaginations and fantasies about how it could be, how it should be, how the other is or is not. We simply deflect our awareness out of reality into imaginary space of the mind, manifested in all kind of different ways. Surprisingly to (unconsciously) protect ourselves. At this point, we are completely unaware that what lies behind and drives all “the love story” is our unconscious definition of love.
Long story short, at the peak of this phase, everyone will find oneself facing a dilemma. Either to step away, to step back – or to move forward into the complete unknown. Where, one day, life will push each of us anyway. In the case of a relationship, there is no other choice than to expose ourselves to the relationship. And to all that starts to surface into it. What we have to face is the wound inside. We have to feel it and deal with it. There’s no escape or any shortcut. In the following stages, we don’t run away or hide anymore. And it takes time.
You can analyse the following phases by yourself, based on your own life experience or observations. And you can apply it to your relationships, your life or a business project. Potentially the next four stages will follow, until the seventh one. However, not all is ideal in today’s world and unfortunately most of us, in most cases, step away during the third stage (that is, if we don’t get stuck in the first or the second one). Because the third stage is critical. In every single aspect of life. The relationship, business or even sports career. It is our Achilles heel. And all usually finishes there, before the cycle is allowed to finish organically, by itself. For we finish it, unconsciously. By running away. Whether we choose the form of repression, denial or separation is of less importance.
And guess what happens then. Another cycle starts. And do you suspect what will happen in the next one? The very same thing, the very same experience, the very same pain surfaces and we approach it the very same way. Thus the vicious circle continues.
Why? Because we are immature, impatient, lost, disintegrated, arrogant, selfish, dishonest, confused, we want to keep control, there is a lack of awareness, a lack of commitment, a lack of persistence and because we don’t want to feel the discomfort. But above all and most importantly, our love is still conditional at that stage. There is still plenty of if, when and under the condition of.
We are blind to the fact that our “issues” has nothing to do with others. And it all happens unconsciously. We are not aware of it and so to some point innocent.
As a consequence we are constantly running away from ourselves, jumping out of the current cycles into the next ones without any awareness of what’s going on. If we would step aside we would see. We are constantly running the same cycle again and again. We are spinning around in the circle. It’s called the rabbit race. Or the human race?
Life with its inherent ancestral conditioning is like a “program”. It’s a program and we are “rabbits”, unconsciously running the ancestral imprints. Unless we (start to) integrate the womb imprint and thus symbolically change the destiny. Or at least the way of how destiny is unfolding, what do we attract to ourselves and what are we attracted to. Until this moment we are the imprint, we are our past. There’s no way of how we could get rid of the imprint, of how we could change the patterns. All we can do is to integrate it, to contain it. And so to raise its frequency, which then allows us to experience a “different face” of the very same imprint. It is an energetical imprint and as such not visible, not tangible. No technique to actively working with the mind, with our beliefs or psychoanalysis could ever help us to resolve this. Such an approach is merely scratching the surface, instead of adjusting the causal point of our experience. And as such is only fiddling with effects. Well, if there is anything to “resolve”.
Life moves in cycles. But we are Life. Who other than us moves in cycles?
Integration is a long-term process. It’s a process of refining the body, of refining our emotions, desires and yearnings. Refining the frequency of the energy field we are. And during this process, all that is inessential have to go. All the ancestral memory imprints have to go away from the body. By integrating them. Integrating the old, stacked, suppressed energy stored in the body cells. And I am not talking here exclusively about the physical body of an individual human being. I am talking about “body” in general. Whether that is a company, a project team, a business initiative or even a nation and society itself.
It is a process of absorbing, of taking in and thus refining the essence inside us. To refine the essence, the primal state, the “prima materia” have to be purified. And it takes years.
The way is long and full of challenges. Will we get through? This is an especially interesting question concerning to the fifth stage of the cycle. Where, if we manage to go through, the process of integration starts to flow more effortlessly. Not that the intensity change, but it becomes easier and more joyous.
What I am trying to share is that we are far more stressed from living our lives than we need to be. And that all we need is to see what is. For the basic setup has been done long before the company started. It has been done in the womb, during the unconscious unity stage. And we are not the ones setting up anything. It’s been done for us, based on all the inputs. In case of a business or IT project based on the “genetic material of the project” which means resources, their quality and intentions involved – people, finances, materials, knowledge, management and all the intangible secrets.
So the question is always “what has been input into the project?” What kind of people and resources? What sort of unconscious or conscious intentions are in? What kind of fears, suppressed emotional states, dishonest or hidden intentions are in from the very beginning of the cycle? Simply said what is the energetical potential of this particular cycle? Because directly based on the inputs the life-cycle will be unfolding. Whether it is life itself, a relationship, a business project, a company you own or a sports career. And the key is always to go through these projects of ours and experience and see what is true for us.
From this point of view, life is for its most part an unfolding of these primal energetical imprints. But as we change our attitude towards the potential, the consequences adjust accordingly. Thus ask yourself honestly how do you treat your potential, your employees or business partners? How do you treat them? And remember that two months from the womb life remained uncovered. So keep the faith and don’t get stuck in any concepts. The only prerequisite is the unconditional attention and acceptance of everything that flows through us at present.
There is nothing spiritual about it. And at the same time everything. It’s a process of refining and tuning the matter. Of taking the rough material and turning it into gold, as the ancient alchemists found. But the matter is being refined by the spirit. Or vice versa? Who knows…